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May 18, 2014 Seeking A promotion

seeking_indexThis week, the craziness continued as the project I was working on was reaching its deadline. As it was completing, the fear of empty and shallow promises began to set in with the thought that they were for the mere purpose of having me complete something no one else was able or willing to do, with no intention of coming through or, sure they will give me a title promotion with not monetary compensation for the additional stress and responsibilities. Now I don’t say this lightly as it is something that scares a lot of people. I really don’t make much now, in fact, when I took this job; I explained that I am used to moving up the ladder quickly and that was  the only reason I would accept as low of a pay as they were offering. (keeping in mind that I was taking a pay cut from what my last job was paying and I was extremely under paid there as well) After taking the job there was a lot of talk around the company that they did not give raises or “real” promotions, the only way you made more was to work more and after several weeks of working 80+ hours with a record of 117 hours in one week, it started to sink in. “Is it time to start looking for another job or focusing on my own business again?” it is scary to think about not being financially secure.. I know I could make it on my own but the early stages of a small business scare me the most. As this project wrapped up, the promises got bigger with the title of Manufacturing Engineer.  Sure, it sounds great but will the pay match.. Probably not..  the last title they talked about giving me was about $20K more a year (at a starting pay)  than I am making now. At this stage in the game Doubts run rampant.

(more to come this week. stay tuned)

 

 

 

May 11, 2014 Back from Mexico and an EXTREMELY busy week

2014-05-03 07.27.35As promised, I am  going to attempt to get caught up for missing last week. The prior week, we were still in Mexico. There was not a lot to do because of missing parts.. it was a good and bad thing and I will explain that in another post when the results are final.. As for a few other things that happened while I was there, Food was horrible.. Not the Mexican everyone here has come to know and love.. I would have loved to get some Taco Bell while I was there but it just wasn’t happening.. looking back there was 2 places that the food was good.. Chili’s and TacoBM.. Chili’s because it was the closest to real food but the Taco BM.. well that was a new experience where they used melted cheese as a taco shell (Pictured below with my chili’s real food!

Another thing that made this journey interesting is, well, they took our blood pressure before every work day.. sadly I knew mine was high but I have just not had time or resources to do anything about it.. After being there I have decided I cannot put it off any longer.. The first day it was 170/110.. although a lot of it may have just been stress from a new location, it stayed consistent the entire time.. the lowest being about 165/94. I’ll keep you posted on how that all works out as time moves on. I also have some videos that I have to process so I can post them here so stay tuned for that.

Finally Saturday arrived and it was time to go home.. now, as I am sure you have figured out, Traveling is always an adventure. Just from the Hotel to the airport was a story by its self. We used a shuttle to get there, leaving at 3:00AM we jumped in the shuttle. the driver was odd. The van was a Manual transmission Diesel (Nice and fairly new) but the driver apparently was not well trained on the art of Manuals as, he decided to remain in 3 or 4 (out of 6 speeds) the entire way.. No problem except that his peddle work was that of a YO-YO so there was a lot of forward and back rocking heads in the van. He also left his Brights on the whole way and refused to dim them for anyone so we as passengers were constantly blinded by oncoming cars flashing their brights at us. The final thing that as a lover of driving that drove me nuts was he would turn on his blinker for a lane change and it remained on the rest of the trip, the only variation is when he would change lanes in the other direction and then leave it on that way as well.  soo much fun.. 
finally we arrived at the small airport where security had to do a physcal check of every bag (poor souls.. all I had was really stinky dirty laundry). and then be boarded and flew.. here are some pictures I took along the way.

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I do recall getting to Texas, we went to IHOP and got breakfast and all I can remember is that I would bite my food and swallow without chewing any more.. I could not handle it… REAL FOOD! From there, the rest was history.. (see if you can guess where the pictures were taken)

This week although super busy, there has not been much to tell (YET) but I can say that I worked 12 hours a day all week until Saturday and the only reason I was able to get out of Saturday was my Daughter was Baptized! very cool experience.. 

Thanks for sharing.. more to come!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

April 27, 2014 In Mexico

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That is right, I have, for the first time in my life left my home country and went to Mexico. Granted, it is for business but I will be here for a week and a half to two weeks so I will get to experience a lot of different things. So, here it is.. a day to day experience for my trip

Day: uno 1

The day started out really early.. I had to meet the guys at the shop at 3:00 AM in time to get tools and still make the flight. Once at the airport, as we were going through security we were all standing in line to go through the body scanner and one of the security agents asked for everyone who had already had their birthday this year already to go through the standard metal detector to help speed up the line.. at 5AM it took a minuet for my brain to kick in so, there was a delayed reaction. The result was him giving several of us crap for taking so long.

There was a lot of typical air port stuff that occurred but I will say that the flight to Texas was one of the smoothest I have ever been on. The Flight from there to San Luis Potosi was more fun however. it was a REALLY small commuter Jet that experienced a lot of turbulence. I also got seated just behind the wing (my favorite spot so I can watch the mechanisms on the wing working in flight)

Everything started to get real fun once we landed.. mostly for loss of communication skills and thus the understanding of what was going on during my first time through customs was fun. It took a few attempts to get the paper work correct but in the end they let me in.. and I went to get my checked luggage but wait….. it was not there, it was not even on our flight.. I had no translator there to tell me what I was suppose to do.. eventually I proceeded only to find out that pheewww it was sent on an earlier flight.. one thing that was fun though is after your luggage is scanned they tell you to push a big red button. (this is not a joke or a prank but they did not tell me what it was either) later I found out that it is to determine if you are randomly selected to have a physical search of your luggage.

After getting all of our luggage we headed out to get our rental car that had been pre-arranged with a friend of one of the managers here. Unknown to us though, it had not been paid for.. No one here wanted to pay for it as the total would have been well over $1000.00.. finally I said I would try but that I had not called my bank to let them know that I was traveling to Mexico. So of coarse it was declined and apparently with in the moment they were trying the transaction, my bank called my wife to confirm the legitimacy of the transaction.. (I love my bank!!) so the manager here had to do it even though he was unwilling.

The drive to the hotel was the most scary I had even seen.. there are typically not lane lines so you really drive where you want. and when there are lanes, it is merely a suggestion not a requirement. I know at one point there was a large commercial van next to us that was so close I could have reached my forearm out the window and touched it with no effort. Speed bumps of all sizes ranging from Normal to Gigantic under carriage scraping masses, were placed randomly on all main roads to accent the mammoth eating potholes everywhere.   The person we were following decided that to get a taxi to move out of the way he would tailgate him.. Not like we do in the stated but more like 6-12″ from his bumper.

At the hotel we find out that only the first night of our planned 12 had been paid for.. that was a mess but at that point the only language spoken was Spanish so I went and relaxed in one of the nice chairs and waited until the problem was solved and we could go eat and get some sleep. By the way they did have my favorite sandwich at the McDonalds here (the McPollo or McChicken). For the meal it was $73.9 Pesos or about $7.00 US

Mexican McChicken!

Days: dos to cinco 2-5

As for the rest of the week we worked a typical 12 hrs a day. Food here is so/so  eggs and beans or eggs and hot dogs for breakfast every morning,  there was also chips and salsa, I leaned toward the cold cereal the most.. the eggs were not bad but the more I ate them the more my stomach became upset. At the shop, it was catered and usually had some kind of soup that was really not good at all..

Day: seis 6

It is finally Sunday and we do not work. The mental fatigue from the language barrier and work bureaucracy has set in and I did not get out of bed until almost 10.. I will also be going back to bed once this post is complete and plan on sleeping and maybe watching a movie the rest of the day.

One week in, and I will say that the things I miss the most about the US are: People who speak English in some form or another, American food!, and safe driving ( I know that sounds weird, Americans are safe drivers?)

Thank you all and hope you all enjoy the journey. that is if the Drug Cartel and Dirty Policia dont get me before the next post 🙂

April 20, 2014 It is never what it seems to be

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Well, as the title suggests, what we thought was the situation last week was no where near what the situation really was. There was a lot of “discovery” going on this last week as I spoke to people concerned in the matter. If you recall we were of the understanding that the sidewalk was stopped due to a complaint from the neighbor. As soon as I was able, I spoke to the said neighbor (who is super cool by the way) and asked him what the story was from his side.. He said that the city came to him asking to put in new sidewalk and gutters as well. He told me that he refused for fear that the city would make him cut down his trees.. At that point I figured that was the problem. Later that day I got a text from my contractor indicating that he had a meeting with the city Tuesday morning and that he wanted me to attend. I figured at that point they would give me the details.. In that meeting I found out that the city was the one holding things up because they waned me to do a type of sidewalk that I did not want. After some negotiations.. we got what we wanted.

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A little comparison there for ya.. Other than that I will admit, not much happened this week after averaging 12 hrs a day for the past 6 days at work. Right now we are looking at a REALLY cheap way to harden the driveway we were not able to do concrete in.. We were looking at Asphalt, but I am wondering if there is still something even cheaper like re-spreading the gravely dirt and getting asphalt sealer to spread over the top since it will all be just temporary (for aprox. 1 year).

(IF YOU HAVE ANY IDEAS PLEASE COMMENT ON THIS POST AND LET ME KNOW)

As for this week and probably next. It is official, I am going to Mexico.. No where all that pretty (San Luis Potosi) and it will be just me and some co-workers, although it is just down the street from the GM manufacturing plant… we’ll see how it goes.. hopefully I can get some good pics to share next week and the week after..

April 13, 2014 Working on vacation


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This is probably my favorite part of this week.. yup, working while on vacation.. although you will likely see this post on Sunday I am sitting here on Wednesday typing it, and yes, I am on vacation. I guess there is something even better than me sitting and typing while on vacation, there is still a lot of working going on at the house! yup, that is part of the reason we are on vacation. Our new Driveway and sidewalk are going in. Most of the driveway was complete before we left but, they were starting on the sidewalk when we left. Because of the amount and location of the sidewalk we would not be able to have parked anywhere near the house making it difficult to live even somewhat normally so… we left!

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(Friday Night) This week has left me with a lot of time to think.. It seems that as we get the careers that we always wanted, the more I realize that it really is not what it seems.. I did get the chance this week to meet up with Everide this week (it was totally awesome to see such a good friend after such a long time) and as we talked, this very subject came up. Having the dream job partially has a lot to do with having time to fulfill personal aspirations and the ability to feel like you are “growing”.  Somehow our generation just missed the gravy train on this.. Worked hard to get experience and education so that we could get that great career we always wanted then. BAM! the economy collapsed and now sure, you can get a good job but, you’ll probably make more bagging groceries at the local store.. oh yea and you are gonna work your guts out so long that you will learn to hate what you do just because there is always someone else out there desperate for a job that will replace you once your burnt out.. so how do you avoid this paradox?…. be your own boss.  how? you may say… I’m really not sure I guess that is part of the adventure.  but I did come across this statistic… something to think about!

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(Sunday)

Well, OK, We arrived home last night just before 10:30 PM and found out that nothing more was done after we left. Apparently something was said between the neighbor and the city that upset my neighbor and in return there was an upset that caused the city to put a stop on our new sidewalk. As of now, we are not sure what will happen or when it will happen.. the problem is, until this is worked out, we cannot drive our cars into our driveway. Not really a problem for me and my family but my father-in-law who is in a wheelchair.. this is just not cool..

on a better note, our vacation was a hoot. tons of gun.. lots of time to relax  here are just a few pictures of the awesome stuff we saw!

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April 6, 2014 Wow did you forget that project?

WOW… Did I forget that other project that had already been started? Did you forget? I really did not, my contractor was held up getting permits and planning drawings from the city, That and the way they wanted it done was totally weird.. Curious  about what I am talking about? Thought so.. it is the new sidewalk and Driveway.new drivewayNow, the driveway to the house was out of the price range and there is too much to do as well to prepare to get it ready anyway. Instead, we will be doing the driveway to the back garage and the sidewalk. The funny thing about the sidewalk, is that the initial idea was to cut the sidewalk to where the old sidewalk was and separate the curb and gutter.. I simply told them that if that was the only option, I would not pay for it. They then came back with another idea that still seems weird but benefits me (I guess) in the long run. That new idea is to gradually angle the sidewalk from the neighbors existing sidewalk, out so that it clears the other neighbors tree. (about 3 more feet from where it would be if it were to go strait). The funny part of that is, the tree that they are protecting is one that has not much life left in it anyway. I figured they would have it go strait as if to go right into the tree and then, angle back to meet up to the old sidewalk there so that after the trees are removed, the sidewalk would continue on and meet up to the rest of sidewalks already in place.. I am just glad that it will be done and the mud at our house will be no more.  The other part that I am excited about is, having the sidewalk in will force the city to relocate 2 phone poles that are in our front yard. One of them is not so bad as it is right near the property line, the other one however is right in the middle of the new driveway.

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Alright after NOT getting to the point, Tomorrow, the concrete guy is coming to start the excavation. He is planning on completing the driveway in the first 4 days of the week and then doing sidewalk the next 4 days. That is nice because, by the time I get back from Mexico, it will be all done and ready to be cleaned up. YEA!!!!!

Sealing the shop is still coming along but is slow as I still have to clean the concrete first and the part that I am on has 3 large oil stains where a jug had leaked a ton of oil. Once I get that oil cleaned up, I will be sealing it and moving on. The next 2 areas are already clean as far as oil goes but will have to have the dirt scrubbed.

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March 30, 2014 A dog’s purpose?

Chug enjoying a day out on a walk
Chug enjoying a day out on a walk

Yep, the side thought is the main subject this week. Reason being, this Last week was one with a very time consuming schedule.  On top of a 60 hr work week not much was able to be completed.

So, for my thought provoking intro. Do dogs have a purpose? I cannot say for sure one way or another but I can tell you this.. As I had mentioned last week, we got our first dog in a long time last Sunday and after a week of acquainting ourselves with the ‘ol Girl and spending a fair amount of change on vet checkups, shots, food and supplies, it makes you question, why have a dog? Don’t get me wrong I am not saying it is a bad thing, in fact I am saying just the opposite. Dogs are a great animal to have around.. So far in just the first week she has already started defending the family. She is not aggressive but she will give out a single solid bark when someone knocks on the door. She checks on everyone regularly and makes her rounds at night when everyone else is sleeping.. I will say, she is more “Friendly” than we thought initially. Over the past week she is more willing to lick, jump, run and play.. That said, she is still super mild and stays in “her place” which is so awesome. I will give one big tip to getting a dog (just in case you are looking) Look for a free dog. I don’t say that to be cheap I say that because someone willing to give away a family pet is in one of 2 circumstances: 1- the dog is completely out of control or 2- they truly cannot keep them due to some other circumstance.. 2 being the one you want to look for.. a well loved dog that would otherwise go to the pound or be put down due to crappy family circumstances. That is where I feel “Chug” came from.. she seems like she was a super good dog in a bad situation (not abusive but not feeling at home)  and now she is just happy.. (I am thinking I need to give more thought on how to express this)  there will be more on this subject later….

As for the project updates.. we are still waiting on the Concrete work to get done. Our City/Town is horrible at getting paper work done but as soon as it is.. a driveway to the shop as well as the front sidewalk will go in and make life really nice, and projects so much easier. On the inside of the shop, one quarter was cleared, sealed and permanent fixtures moved into place and the second quarter is starting to be cleared. Here are a few pics to show what has been done.

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Granted there is still a lot to do in the first area but the finishing details will not be done until the whole shop is sealed and starting to go together but, this will make space to start getting more done.

March 23, 2014 A New project underway and a new family member!

This may have to be a shorter post this week.. I decided to decapitate my knuckle and it is now difficult to type.. just to give you an image, it took off about a nickle size area and removed all of the skin so you could see the main veins and goodies that make a finger work. For your sake this is all that I will show.2014-03-23 17.24.09

I believe in my last post it was declared that the bedroom project was complete but at the time I did not have any pictures but, I do now.  so this is the room already broke in.2014-03-23 17.21.23alright, that is not what the purpose of this post is.  The Garage is the new project and we did make some progress.. the shelving that I started last week is now complete and I started loading it up.. 2014-03-22 15.40.53

I am thinking I will have to add one more chain support and distribute the weight across 3 supports because the on side where I put all of the spare tiles and shingles from the house, it seems to be sagging a bit..

here are the pics of that progress

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ok so now that the shelf is up we are working on the shop space its self.. clearing 1/4 at a time, sealing the floor and then moving stuff back in an organized way.. it is really nice to see open space instead of the mess

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I did get to see something beautiful while I was at it that had been buried for some time2014-03-22 17.02.04

I have not actually sealed the floor yet as I have been working to clean the concrete first..

As for other big news, we just had an addition to the family as of today.. I wanted to introduce you to “Chug” she is a 7 year old Shar Pei Mix.. very calm.. loves the kids already and doesn’t even lick.. she does have a funny arm pit fetish but I guess that is better than the typical Crotch one..

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Well that is it for now.. looking forward to getting more news as the work goes on!

 

March 3,2014 boy does time fly

Wow, I cannot believe that I have missed 2 Sundays worth of posts.. how on earth did any of you let me do that.. I guess I better get caught up on the happenings around here.

In the past 2 weeks we have made tons of progress on the room, In fact we are doing floor patch today and carpet tomorrow! but enough teaser. lets start from where we left off!

The garage was left off with one light and one receptacle and one light.. not much has happened more there but we did get 2 more lights up and started plans for how it will be laid out. The goal is to get a lift and be able to “lift” a full size vehicle for under side and major repairs.. First things first.. on the Bottom (south) of the garage there will be a 4′ shelf for long term storage mounted about 6’6″ high.. once that is up we will be able to start some serious cleaning and preping.

preliminary ideas on how to lay out the garage
preliminary ideas on how to lay out the garage

Wow the house on the other hand has made much progress.  Final preperations were made for the tile including and entire day chipping away old flooring and adding new mesh and sandmix

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Then the fun began.. Laying the tile. It seemed easy at first until we realized that this house was just as un-square on the floor as it was on the walls..  but in the end I believe it turned out fine.. the only BooBoo’s there are will only likely be noticed by those who put them in .

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As I mentioned.. we are down to patching the floor in the bed room.. this was an interesting thing to see….2014-03-11 11.17.10we are not sure what this was for, we are suspecting it was some kind of septic tank  so we filled it with rocks from the vast supply our yard offers us and have filled the remainder with concrete.. Then we will be using sand mix to do the final touches.

OK so, on a fun note. This last weekend I went and was helping a neighbor tear down an old chicken coop with a group of fellow neighbors. When we saw how horribly wobbly it was we figured hooking a cable to it and pulling it down would surly disintegrate the structure and make clean up go faster but to our surprise. it was a lot more strong than we though.. here is what happened.

Feb 23, 2014 So close and yet so far!

Well, I suppose I could say that this was a productive week. After a very trying weekend dealing with millions of rocks, it was hard to be motivated but we did it anyway.. Through out the week we completed the conduit to the garage (wires and all) and just yesterday we wired up the Garage breaker box with 1 receptacle and 1 light. I know that doesn’t sound like a lot but that is a real milestone with this garage. Now we have the ability to work in the garage (Limited but still) with light.. Also if we need any sort of power we can use a short extension cord and go at it rather than dragging a 50′ cord from the house. The next step on the garage is to CLEAN IT OUT! There is soo much stuff that has accumulated in there because of the lack of lighting. Everyone was literally opening the door and setting stuff just inside because you could not see the proper location or even a safe path to it.. The garage started its life full with half full of my father-in-laws wood working tools and the other half crammed with my Mechanical tools and motorcycles, then when my Father-In-Law was diagnosed with Cancer, more stuff was put there in an attempt to remove “past life thoughts” such as his hunting gear and all the other what not’s.  That plus, we liquidated the Flooring company and the person that was buying most of the supplies and tools left what he did not want/ could not afford.. Needless to say it is extremely full and even more un-organised.

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I did get to pull “Zuki” out into the light, more to get it out of the way but it was nice to see it in the sun light.. kinda helped to get motivated to get it going more.

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As for the house project… we finished the last of the interior electrical as well as the remainder of the Sheetrock.. Some of the mudding still needs some attention where the ceiling transitions into the older part of the house. The bedroom ceiling is primed and completely painted. and all of the rest of the Sheetrock is primed just not painted.. I am sure with the girls impatience, they will be all over that tomorrow in a push to get it done.. we are really hoping to at least start on the flooring side of things before the end of the week.

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With so many projects getting so close to completion, we can feel the strain of the push catching up to us.. now it is all we can do to get the house done, wrap up the underground electrical line, cleaning the garage and getting the Zuki going..